Tuesday reminder that dang!!! You look good! I love seeing fat girls belly outlines and it’s nothing to be ashamed of to have a visible belly outline!! You don’t need spanx or shape wear, your body is just fine without it. Rock your tummy ✌️
Tonight, one of my son’s Cub Scout mate’s sister’s (she’s 5) asked me: “Hey, where’s his dad?” pointing at my Connor..
My response: “away.. I don’t know”
Her response: “Maybe California?”
“Maybe; maybe Timbuktu. Maybe...wait, what’s the pit Batman gets sent into in Dark Knight Rises? Never mind, let’s go Princess Bride reference. The ‘pit of despair,’ that’s where his dad is.” I was trying to be funny. Other parents were sitting around us when she asked. I was embarrassed that I honestly couldn’t provide an answer. I don’t know. Last we saw him was 4 years ago. It is what it is. I’m not mad. It’s unfortunate, but we’re happy.
There’s things I would love to say. There’s things I wish I could express, especially when I have an immediate family member who comments on my single mother-dom all the time and how they try to take over and say I’m doing everything wrong; but I’ve always made it a point to not say negative things about his father, no matter how much I sometimes want to. Although he was quite hot back in the day....hence child. It’s hard though, on days when I show up to father/son days as the only mom. Or when his friends ask him directly and he answers “I don’t know, he’s around somewhere.” Or when his friends have their dads go camping for scouts with them and it’s either me or no one. Or how to smile when you see the “nuclear families.” But for now, we’re happy. We’re living our lives. We’ve got family, and friends, and support that on my darkest days I can reach out to and grasp at that hold I need. That’s enough for now (hi, who else has walkie-talkies with their kids in bed?). I appreciate the authors I read, #LilaRose , #MariaLisaDeMora , #KristenAshley , #JoannaWylde , #lwilder ...The stories through which I can escape. Everyone comes from so many paths, yet sometimes, through some things, we’re all on the same one.
This is what I WANTED to fully post on my personal Facebook, but sometimes Judgy McJudgerton’s step in where they shouldn’t.
Walking into my week feeling all kinds of confident and capable. One time a professor gave me the advice to “dress like a boss” on test days as a way to shift my energy. It’s a pro-tip that has proved itself over and over again. Cheers to accomplishing all the good things this week! ❤️ Jaci 👚$118 Sizes 0X-3X👖Skirt $70 Sizes 10/12 - 26/28 (If we’re out of your size, dm me. I’ll let you know the second it’s back in stock) 📷 @peacockeyes
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