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  • Trust me when I say — the greatest thing you will ever do for yourself is to simply listen to what you actually want from life. Drown out the guidelines, the advice, the 'shoulds.' Drown out all of the opinions, all of the ways in which others are telling you how to live, and love, and exist in this world. It won’t be easy, it never is; because this is what they don’t tell you — finding your own version of happiness it isn’t this comfortable, miraculous thing. It can get confusing, it will be hard. It’s difficult to be the person who does things differently, who chooses to walk away from from a life, or a love, or a hope that they once wanted. It is never easy to be the person who changes.

But it's the greatest gift you will ever give yourself. It will push you towards figuring out what your own personal version of happiness looks like; and when you grow on your own terms, when you figure out what actually matters to you, what actually ignites your heart, what actually drives you to love yourself more — you live on your own terms. You become the person you have always wanted to be, rather than the person you were always told to be, and that is beautiful. Because when it comes down to it — life is about finding a happiness that works for you. 
So choose that happiness. Choose the kind of love that feels right, the kind of love that makes you understand why it didn’t work out with anyone else. Choose the kind of life that makes you so damn happy you kept fighting for the things you wanted, for the way in which your heart asked you to believe in more. Choose yourself, unapologetically and without guilt — the way you choose others. Show up for yourself. Give yourself permission to hope, to care, to trust in the things you deeply crave from life. Choose letting go. Choose forgiveness, choose to turn your losses into lessons. Choose to move forward, into the kind of story that fulfills you, into the kind of person that holds your heart just as carefully as you hold theirs, into the kind of happiness that exists because you chose to fight for it, and never stop fighting for it. Never stop. ✨
  • Trust me when I say — the greatest thing you will ever do for yourself is to simply listen to what you actually want from life. Drown out the guidelines, the advice, the 'shoulds.' Drown out all of the opinions, all of the ways in which others are telling you how to live, and love, and exist in this world. It won’t be easy, it never is; because this is what they don’t tell you — finding your own version of happiness it isn’t this comfortable, miraculous thing. It can get confusing, it will be hard. It’s difficult to be the person who does things differently, who chooses to walk away from from a life, or a love, or a hope that they once wanted. It is never easy to be the person who changes.

    But it's the greatest gift you will ever give yourself. It will push you towards figuring out what your own personal version of happiness looks like; and when you grow on your own terms, when you figure out what actually matters to you, what actually ignites your heart, what actually drives you to love yourself more — you live on your own terms. You become the person you have always wanted to be, rather than the person you were always told to be, and that is beautiful. Because when it comes down to it — life is about finding a happiness that works for you.
    So choose that happiness. Choose the kind of love that feels right, the kind of love that makes you understand why it didn’t work out with anyone else. Choose the kind of life that makes you so damn happy you kept fighting for the things you wanted, for the way in which your heart asked you to believe in more. Choose yourself, unapologetically and without guilt — the way you choose others. Show up for yourself. Give yourself permission to hope, to care, to trust in the things you deeply crave from life. Choose letting go. Choose forgiveness, choose to turn your losses into lessons. Choose to move forward, into the kind of story that fulfills you, into the kind of person that holds your heart just as carefully as you hold theirs, into the kind of happiness that exists because you chose to fight for it, and never stop fighting for it. Never stop. ✨
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  • 5/30/2018 #throwback 
Just because you still love someone does not mean you should let them back in your life. Some mistakes just can’t be fixed or forgiven. I rather chance having my heart hurt in the hands of someone else than in the hands of someone who crushed it before. Sometimes you just have to let it be. .
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  • 5/30/2018 #throwback
    Just because you still love someone does not mean you should let them back in your life. Some mistakes just can’t be fixed or forgiven. I rather chance having my heart hurt in the hands of someone else than in the hands of someone who crushed it before. Sometimes you just have to let it be. .
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  • Download your Daughter Drink This Water audiobook exclusively at jaiyajohn.com (bio link). Not just an audiobook. An audio massage. @jaiyajohn

Verse from my newest book, Daughter Drink This Water, online at booksellers. Bio link.

Book a keynote, talk, or book reading. Bio link.
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  • Download your Daughter Drink This Water audiobook exclusively at jaiyajohn.com (bio link). Not just an audiobook. An audio massage. @jaiyajohn

    Verse from my newest book, Daughter Drink This Water, online at booksellers. Bio link.

    Book a keynote, talk, or book reading. Bio link.
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  • A big shout to all you women out there. Some of us are here hold ten positions in one. You are the creative director, marketer, accountant, sales manager, cleaner etc in your business. Not forgetting your home duties. These duties all for one individual can be exhausting but u still get up and show up.....twale🙌🙌 to you all. I'm sure sometimes you just feel like going away somewhere to clear your head ...😂 I feel that way too 😁😁
Don't forget, if u ever get overwhelmed, it's OK to take a break to rest. It's OK to ask for help. Rest is a form of self care and resting is a part of healthy living. Love yourself enough not to break down.
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STAY STRONG!!
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Good morning family!!
  • A big shout to all you women out there. Some of us are here hold ten positions in one. You are the creative director, marketer, accountant, sales manager, cleaner etc in your business. Not forgetting your home duties. These duties all for one individual can be exhausting but u still get up and show up.....twale🙌🙌 to you all. I'm sure sometimes you just feel like going away somewhere to clear your head ...😂 I feel that way too 😁😁
    Don't forget, if u ever get overwhelmed, it's OK to take a break to rest. It's OK to ask for help. Rest is a form of self care and resting is a part of healthy living. Love yourself enough not to break down.
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    STAY STRONG!!
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    Good morning family!!
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  • Love my Hannah Pads- out and proud!! If you haven’t tried fabric pads I highly recommend it for a happy pussy, and a more sustainable option for menstruation. To me this is the ultimate self love. From a hater of having a period to treating myself like a juicy goddess and honouring my body as a TEMPLE. Learning more about myself and by being grateful today for the little things like the joy of seeing clean washing on the line, to a big thing like women being able to experience our bodily functions as being beautiful not a burden- let alone just be okay with the whole functions and affairs of the whole thing. I believe it’s important to teach our men and children how to support us in our changing hormonal states- let alone changing emotional landscape 💎🧡 ...and be okay with seeing pads flapping in the wind 🤣 how cool are the designs!! @hannahpad_sa #organic #heavenonearth #ritual #bloodmagic #yonilove #selfcare #happyvagina #womenswellness #mindfulliving #woman #yonihealth #feminine #menstruation #blood #sacred #selflove #womenempowerment
  • Love my Hannah Pads- out and proud!! If you haven’t tried fabric pads I highly recommend it for a happy pussy, and a more sustainable option for menstruation. To me this is the ultimate self love. From a hater of having a period to treating myself like a juicy goddess and honouring my body as a TEMPLE. Learning more about myself and by being grateful today for the little things like the joy of seeing clean washing on the line, to a big thing like women being able to experience our bodily functions as being beautiful not a burden- let alone just be okay with the whole functions and affairs of the whole thing. I believe it’s important to teach our men and children how to support us in our changing hormonal states- let alone changing emotional landscape 💎🧡 ...and be okay with seeing pads flapping in the wind 🤣 how cool are the designs!! @hannahpad_sa #organic #heavenonearth #ritual #bloodmagic #yonilove #selfcare #happyvagina #womenswellness #mindfulliving #woman #yonihealth #feminine #menstruation #blood #sacred #selflove #womenempowerment
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  • Só sei que a certeza da vida é que ela não é pra sempre 🙏🏻💛
  • Só sei que a certeza da vida é que ela não é pra sempre 🙏🏻💛
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  • 🖤 I am amazing. I am beautiful. I am worthy 🖤
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Now those are not a statements that come out of my mouth often.
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The other weekend I attended a 3 day festival all about personal growth and development.
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To help those who attended grow in their personal lives and in their business.
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The event was hosted by a beautiful couple who brought their vision for the business to Aus. And of course, there was an EPIC after party.
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The theme for the party was to come as your FULLY EXPRESSED SELF. Whatever that means to you.
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When I first heard that was the theme months ago, I knew instantly in my head what I wanted. I could see it.
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But, I was super nervous. I feared judgement.
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Judgement from others.
Judgment from myself.
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That I wouldn't look good. That it would be over the top. That my boobs would be "too out". The list goes on.
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I put off buying my outfit for quite a while because of those internal fears.
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Finally I thought, f**k it!
That's what I want.
That's me.
I'm doing it.
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Saturday night came. I had my outfit on and shit I was nervous. I knew that I wouldn't be judged by the people there.. but I just couldn't let go of that fear.
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So I arrived at the event, and those fears were instantly washed away.
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Do you know what it feels like, to be surround by 900 people, fully expressing themselves, giving out nothing but positive loving vibes?
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IT FEELS AAAAMAZING!
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Never did I think I would be walking around in front of 900 people, in a jewelled bra and a completely sheer skirt, feeling CONFIDENT and BEAUTIFUL.
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I felt more confident than I have ever felt.
I felt fierce and amazing.
I felt SEXY and I LOVED it.
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My heart is so full.
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This is my community. These are my people.
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I am so grateful that a year ago I decided to take a leap of faith and do something different.
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Surround yourself with people who lift you up.
That give you nothing but love.
That help you see how truely AMAZING YOU ARE.
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I've got nothing but love in my heart.
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Love for myself and all those around me.
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#selflove #personaldevelopment #personalgrowth #onlinebusiness #expressyourself
  • 🖤 I am amazing. I am beautiful. I am worthy 🖤
    .
    Now those are not a statements that come out of my mouth often.
    .
    The other weekend I attended a 3 day festival all about personal growth and development.
    .
    To help those who attended grow in their personal lives and in their business.
    .
    The event was hosted by a beautiful couple who brought their vision for the business to Aus. And of course, there was an EPIC after party.
    .
    The theme for the party was to come as your FULLY EXPRESSED SELF. Whatever that means to you.
    .
    When I first heard that was the theme months ago, I knew instantly in my head what I wanted. I could see it.
    .
    But, I was super nervous. I feared judgement.
    .
    Judgement from others.
    Judgment from myself.
    .
    That I wouldn't look good. That it would be over the top. That my boobs would be "too out". The list goes on.
    .
    I put off buying my outfit for quite a while because of those internal fears.
    .
    Finally I thought, f**k it!
    That's what I want.
    That's me.
    I'm doing it.
    .
    Saturday night came. I had my outfit on and shit I was nervous. I knew that I wouldn't be judged by the people there.. but I just couldn't let go of that fear.
    .
    So I arrived at the event, and those fears were instantly washed away.
    .
    Do you know what it feels like, to be surround by 900 people, fully expressing themselves, giving out nothing but positive loving vibes?
    .
    IT FEELS AAAAMAZING!
    .
    Never did I think I would be walking around in front of 900 people, in a jewelled bra and a completely sheer skirt, feeling CONFIDENT and BEAUTIFUL.
    .
    I felt more confident than I have ever felt.
    I felt fierce and amazing.
    I felt SEXY and I LOVED it.
    .
    My heart is so full.
    .
    This is my community. These are my people.
    .
    I am so grateful that a year ago I decided to take a leap of faith and do something different.
    .
    Surround yourself with people who lift you up.
    That give you nothing but love.
    That help you see how truely AMAZING YOU ARE.
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    I've got nothing but love in my heart.
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    Love for myself and all those around me.
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    #selflove #personaldevelopment #personalgrowth #onlinebusiness #expressyourself
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  • 'Autumn'. This was my least favorite when I painted it, but it has become my favorite, and it hangs in my living room now.

#selflove #meditation #painting
  • 'Autumn'. This was my least favorite when I painted it, but it has become my favorite, and it hangs in my living room now.

    #selflove #meditation #painting
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  • Remember that the best thing that happens To you is being you.

Do what makes you happy not what makes other happy.

Love yourself unconditionally,selflove is the best kind of love.

You're beautiful and you are lucky to have you in yourlife.

Keep being you and make yourself happy.

#beyourbiggestfan #selflove #Keepbeingyou #igwriter #Motivational #viral.
  • Remember that the best thing that happens To you is being you.

    Do what makes you happy not what makes other happy.

    Love yourself unconditionally,selflove is the best kind of love.

    You're beautiful and you are lucky to have you in yourlife.

    Keep being you and make yourself happy.

    #beyourbiggestfan #selflove #Keepbeingyou #igwriter #Motivational #viral .
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  • Have you ever convinced yourself that you should wait? That you’re ‘not quite ready’, or that you can’t possibly make that investment right now? So you wait… and wait… and wait… and nothing changes. Your circumstances have remained the same, and you’re no closer to being able to commit to the one thing you want to do? When you throw these fear-based stories to the curb (because ultimately that’s all they are) and you take inspired action, it’s incredible to see how things just work. You’re in this kind of flow, and somehow you FIND the time that you told yourself you didn’t have before. You CREATE / MANIFEST the finances you need that you convinced yourself you’d never have. It’s called being in alignment. When you take actions from a sense of Love instead of fear, the universe conspires to help you. You start to see all the opportunities you were missing before because you’ve tuned in. You start to change the fear-based stories you keep telling yourself that have kept you stuck for all these years. You start to have hope again, and that’s reflected in your outer world. There is no such thing as the ‘perfect time’ or ‘being ready’. They’re both excuses and they’re strong excuses that will keep you stuck for the rest of your life. So, are you going to take inspired action to FINALLY get transform yourself? Or are you going to remain stuck, frustrated and lost? The choice is yours, but you don’t have to do it alone. Book your complimentary discovery call with me and I can help you change your life. Link in bio 😘
  • Have you ever convinced yourself that you should wait? That you’re ‘not quite ready’, or that you can’t possibly make that investment right now? So you wait… and wait… and wait… and nothing changes. Your circumstances have remained the same, and you’re no closer to being able to commit to the one thing you want to do? When you throw these fear-based stories to the curb (because ultimately that’s all they are) and you take inspired action, it’s incredible to see how things just work. You’re in this kind of flow, and somehow you FIND the time that you told yourself you didn’t have before. You CREATE / MANIFEST the finances you need that you convinced yourself you’d never have. It’s called being in alignment. When you take actions from a sense of Love instead of fear, the universe conspires to help you. You start to see all the opportunities you were missing before because you’ve tuned in. You start to change the fear-based stories you keep telling yourself that have kept you stuck for all these years. You start to have hope again, and that’s reflected in your outer world. There is no such thing as the ‘perfect time’ or ‘being ready’. They’re both excuses and they’re strong excuses that will keep you stuck for the rest of your life. So, are you going to take inspired action to FINALLY get transform yourself? Or are you going to remain stuck, frustrated and lost? The choice is yours, but you don’t have to do it alone. Book your complimentary discovery call with me and I can help you change your life. Link in bio 😘
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